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Reba amabanga umukobwa adakeneye ko umusore amenya

Ad Restricted   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 17 June 2020 Yasuwe: 15959

Abagore bateye ukwabo mu bintu by’ubuzima ku buryo uko ubabona inyuma niko utabona ibibarimo, ureba cyane ariko ukabona bicye, ariyo mpamvu bakunze kuba ihuriro ry’ibiganiro mu kumenya imiterere yabo, bagira amabanga bihariye.


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Urashobora kubana n’umugore igihe kitari gito ariko kandi ntube washobora kumva no kumenya kimwe cya kabiri cy’ibitekerezo bye, imiterere n’ibisubizo kubyo atekereza ku buryo washobora guhamya ko aramutse ahindutse Perezida cyangwa umuyobozi mukuru w’ingabo z’igihugu byinshi byajya ku murongo.

Nahisemo gukora ku mabanga atanu (aho kuba arindwi) abagore badakeneye ku kukubwira kugirango uyamenye, kubera ko “karindwi” mu busanzwe ari umubare uvuga kuruhuka, kwitekerezaho no gutungana.

Ni ayahe mabanga 5 abagore badakeneye ko umenya?

1. Ukuntu Yatakaje Ubusugi

Nukuri iyo umubano ukiri mushya, ntuzigere ushukwa ngo ubaze uko yatakaje ubusugi bwe, ha ku bushake cyangwa intege byatumye biba, benshi biba bitaboroheye kubivuga. Abakobwa bamwe na bamwe badashobora kugerageza kwirinda ubwoba bashobora guhinda umushyitsi cyangwa bikabangiza mu bwonko.

Mu byifuzo byabo byose, abagore bose banga uburyo batakaje ubusugi cyangwa uko byagenda kose bishoboaka ko bashobora no kuba barabutakaje bitewe no gufatwa ku ngufu..

Gusa buriwese bibaye ngombwa azishimira kuguhishurira igice cya kabiri, isaha, umunsi, ukwezi numwaka byabaye. Nibanga ryabo rito kandi ugomba kumva ko abagore batinya kandi boroshye kuri iyo ndingo.

Umubare munini wabadamu ubona hanze aha bahatiwe kubikora kunshuro yabo ya mbere, bamwe baranafashwe.

Ni ibintu biteye ubwoba kubyirengagiza, kubigarura ashobora kubifata nkoo gufungura ikibazo cyumubiri cyari gishaje kimaze kwibagirana.

Ndibuka umudamu watewe igico na mubyara we. Ahanini tekereza kumubaza kuri iki cyifuzo “Nigute byakugendekeye ubwa mbere”, ushobora gutekereza ute wowe ubwawe? Nzi neza ko uzi Igisubizo, kutagirana ikiganiro ku mvune yagize.

2. Ku mahirwe yo kuba yaba yarakuyemo inda mbere

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko 25% by’abagore bahuye n’uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwo kuvanamo urusoro mu gihe cy’ubuzima bwabo. Wabyemera cyangwa utabyemera 15% by’abagore babyaye igihe kitaragera mugihe bari bakiri bato bakiri mu mashuri.

Ntushobora kubishyuza, kuri kiriya cyiciro cy’abangavu kiba gishimishije ku buryo insoresore zishobora kumushukashuka zikagera ku byo zifuza. Kugira ngo arengere kwishingikiriza mu mutwe kandi ntabe agasuzuguro kubantu be n’imiryango, azahitamo gukuramo inda rwihishwa. Iki akaaba ari kimwe mu bisubizo bye bito, ntabwo yagusaba kubimenya.

3. Niba yumva abishatse igihe abonye umusore mu mwenda w’imbere cyangwa ipantaro imufashe

Mu busanzwe abakobwa benshi bakururwa n’abantu bashyushye, iyo babonye umuntu uteye muri ubwo buryo baratwarwa utanitaye ku buryo baba bambaye haba imbere cyangwa inyuma.

Wigeze ureba aho umukunzi wawe akureba iyo uri hafi ye? Ikintu nyamukuru utakwirengagiza akora nuko akureba mu rukenyerero rwawe.

Ntakibazo, mugihe atabigaragaje muburyo bugaragara, ugomba kwemera ko aba yifuza kuguteranya akareba hahandi adashobora kureba neza wambaye. Abadamu benshi bariyoroshya kandi ntibashaka kuba abambere gutangira ibyiyumviro. Niko bateye, baba bashaka buri gihe ngo ufate iya mbere.

Kubera iyo mpamvu, abagore barushijeho gukururwa kubagabo bambaye imyenda yegeranye, cyane cyane ubwoko bwagaragaje imiterere y’ubugabo bw;umugabo mu maguru.

4. Amafaranga afite kuri konti ye

Ntabwo abakobwa benshi bazaguhishurira, mu buringanire bwabo, amafaranga babitse muri banki. Umukobwa wese uzagukingurira kuri iryo banga uzahite umurongora, Ndavuze nti: “Murongore nta gushidikanya.” Muri rusange, abagore bifuza kubaza mugihe abagabo bifuza gutanga.

Bamwe mu bagore barahishira kubijyanye n’amafaranga. Azarahira ko adafite igiceri na kimwe mu rwego rwo gukusanya bike ufite. Mugire igikundiro rero kandi ntuhitemo mu gihe atakukwizanyije ukuri umutungo afite muri banki.

5. Aragukunda by’ukuri

Nukuri mu gihe agushimiye byukuri, uzabimenya, udakurikije ko yakumenyesheje, kuva abigaragaza. Mu byukuri abashakanye bafite ikibazo cyo kutumva uburyo bwo kuvuga “Ndagukunda”. Ntabwo ukurikije ko atabikora, uko byagenda kose birashoboka bitewe nuko adakeneye kwirirwa abikubwira kugirango ubimenye.

Abagabo benshi babigira birebire bakazamura ikuzimu iyo basobanukiwe n’umugore ububaha byukuri. Kutakubwira rero ni uburyo bwo kugufata no kukuringaniriza imipaka. Rwara maze uzarebe niba atazaguhishurira miliyoni za “NDAGUKUNDA”, niba aribyo bintu bizatuma ukira vuba!

Nizere ko wafashe ibintu bibiri cyangwa bitatu byihariye byerekeranye n’abagore muri iyi nyandiko. Ndabasaba kubikoresha mugamije kuvugurura umubano hagati yanyu.

Author : Martin Munezero

Munezero Martin ni Umwanditsi w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2014.

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