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Menya ibintu 8 udakwiye kubwira umugore wawe kuko bishobora kubishya urukundo

Amakuru   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 4 December 2020 Yasuwe: 5689

Kugira ngo umubano wanyu urusheho kuba mwiza no kuzaba mwiza hari interuro n’ ingingo mudakwiye kubwira umugore wawe cyangwa umukobwa mukundana.


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8 Wakundanye n’ abagabo bangahe ?

Iki kibazo si ngombwa kukibaza umukobwa mukundana cyangwa umugore wawe, kuko nta mubare w’ abagabo wagenwe umukobwa cyangwa umugore agomba gukundana nawo, ngo wenda ube wabimubaza kugira ngo umenye ko yagejeje kuri uwo mubare. Iki kibazo abagore baracyanga kandi nta n’ icyo cyongera mu mibanire y’ abakundana.

7. Urashaka kunsura.

Akenshi umusore wasohokanye n’ umukobwa aba ashaka ko uwo mukobwa anamusura. Ni byiza kwirinda kumubaza iki kibazo ahubwo ukabimubwira mu buryo butari ikibazo kandi buha umukunzi wawe amahitamo. Uti ‘Si byiza ko ijoro turikesha turi hano’. Niba nanone ushaka kumuha gahunda y’ ubutaha mwari kumwe cyangwa mwavugana sibyiza ko urashaka kunsura kuko ahita akeka ko ushaka ko muryamana. Ikiza umubaza aho yifuza ko ubutaha muzahurira.

6. Urashaka guhura n’ umuryango wanjye ?

Kujyana umukunzi wawe mu rugo iwanyu ni ikintu cy’ ingeni mu rukundo. Gishobora no kugira icyo cyangiza mu rukundo rwanyu igihe umuryango wawe utari witeguye. Kubaza umukobwa niba ashaka ko uzajya kumwereka umuryango wawe byumvikana nko kubimuhatiriza. Aho kubimubaza wabimumenyesha ukamusaba ko azakubwira igihe azaba yiteguye.

5. Byari bimeze bite ?

Kuko muba mukundana ntabwo umukobwa atinyuka kukubwira ko bitagenze neza kuko aba adashaka kukubabaza, ikiza ni uko utegereza akazabikugaragariza.

4. Iyo myenda ntabwo ikubereye

Uru ni urugero rw’ interuro ubwira umukobwa mukundana cyangwa umugore wawe ikamubabaza. Ikiza wamubwira ko iyo myenda yambaye utayikunze ukamuha ibisobanuro ariko iyo umubwiye ko imyenda yambaye itamubereye yiyumvamo ko unenze imiterere ye.

3 Warabyibushye ?

Niba warabyibushye nawe aba abizi, nta mpamvu yo kubimwibutsa, ahubwo wamufasha gukora siporo no kurya neza.

2. Sinkunda inshuti zawe

Aho kugira ngo ubwire umugore wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe ko afite inshuti mbi , ahubwo umufasha kubona no guhitamo inshuti nziza akareka inshuti za kera.

1. Umukunzi wanjye wa mbere yankoreraga ibi mu gitanda nawe bikore

Igihe ukeneye ko umugore wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe mushya agukorera ibyo umukunzi wawe mwatandukanye yagukoreraga ni bibi kubimubwira ahubwo ikiza ni uko ubimwigisha ukamubwira ko ubikunda, icyo gihe nawe arabigukorera ariko iyo umubwiye umukunzi wawe wa kera yumva ko urimo kwicuza kuba mwaratandukanye ku buryo bishobora kurakaza umugore wawe akakubwira ati ‘uzamusange, wamusize utamureba’.

Author : Martin Munezero

Munezero Martin ni Umwanditsi w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2014.

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