Nkore iki ko mu buriri nta kintu amarira. Mungire inama
Umukunzi w’urubuga umuryango.rw yaratwandikiye atugezaho ikibazo yifuza ko abakunzi b’uru rubuga bamugira inama y’icyo yakora. Nk’uko dusanzwe dufashanya mu bitekerezo byiza byubaka tukaba tubasaba ko n’uyu muvandimwe twamufasha kuva muri iki kibazo.
Yagize ati:
Bavandimwe dusangiye uru rubuga mbona hari ibibazo bivugirwa hano bigakemuka, na njye ndaje ngo mungire inama ku kibazo mfite mu muryango wanjye.
Ndi umugore ukiri muto, ndubatse mbana n’umugabo tumaze kubyarana kabiri, umwana wacu mukuru afite imyaka itatu umutoya afite umwaka umwe.
Umugabo wanjye twashakanye mukunda cyane, afite akazi keza kamuhemba amafaranga ahagije nanjye mfite akazi keza muri Leta.
Mu by’ukuri umugabo wanjye dushakana nafashe icyemezo cyo kureka abahungu bose twari twarakundanye mbere, mubonamo umuntu unyuze umutima. Gusa mbere abo bahungu twakundanye buri umwe twararyamanaga mu gihe twakundanaga ariko ntabwo twagize umushinga ngo hagire uwo turushingana.
Mu rugo iwanjye, umugabo tubana nabonaga ari umusore mwiza utagira uko asa haba mu mico no mu myifatire kandi ni ko ameze, mbona ari umuntu w’inyangamugayo, ariko mu buriri nta kintu amarira (ntampaza) ku buryo ubu numva aho kubura ibyishimo ngiye kumureka.
Nagerageje kwihangana, mubwira ikibazo cy’uko numva mu buriri ntacyo amarira ariko nkabona ntacyo ahindura. Ntinya kumubwira ko nakundanye n’abandi bahungu mbere ndetse tukanaryamana kuko ntinya ko yambonamo umusambanyi akanangabanyiriza icyizere, cyangwa we akumva ko ntacyo amaze.
Mu by’ukuri umugabo wanjye aho bigeze numva ntakibashije kwihanga kuko atakibasha kumpaza mu buriri, numva namureka nkigendera.
Ubu mfite ikibazo cy’abo bana twabyaranye, kuko ndabakunda. Aho bigeze aha, umugabo wanjye twarasezeranye imbere y’Imana no mu mategeko, ariko mbura aho mpera naka gatanya kuko nabuze aho nahera nsobanurira umuryango impamvu yo gutandukana n’umugabo wanjye babona ari indakemwa mu mico no mu myifatire.
Bavandimwe mwamfasha kungira inama y’icyo nakora. Ese byashoboka ko uyu mugabo namwihanganira nkemera kubabara bigahera ku mutima? Umugabo wanjye se nimubwiza ukuri ikibazo mfite hari icyo yakora kugira ngo mu buriri bige bigenda neza mu buryo buhuye n’ibyifuzo byanjye?
Abana banjye se iki ni cyo gihe cyo kubasiga cyangwa nkabatwara se? Ubu se ko numva umugabo wanjye ntakimwizeye n’ubwo mu mutima harimo izo ntambara, nakora iki? Mumfashe ndabinginze.
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picu 31 July 2020
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Gasana 30 July 2020
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Ntare 30 July 2020
Gerageza kumubwiza ukuri ahinduke ndetse ashake abamugira inama zuburyo yajyabikoramo birashoboka kuba mubusorebwe atarigeze abigerageza we akumvako ukwabikora arukonguko nanjye byambayeho igihe kirekire ngusa njyewe sinategerejeko umugore abimbwira ahubwo nabyiyumvagamo naje kugisha Inama gusa ububyarakemutse ndumugabo wokubihamya nanjye natanga isomo sawa uzagerageze