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Sobanukirwa inzozi benshi bagira iyo barose bari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’abantu bagiye batandukanye

Opinion   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 14 January 2021 Yasuwe: 5637

Abantu benshi bajya bibaza impamvu iyo baryamye barota bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina nyamara ntibamenye muby’ukuri ikiba kibyihishe inyuma. Igitabo LOVE SPELLS cyanditswe na Marianne Vicelich kivuga ko ushobora kurota ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina bitewe n’ibyo uba wiriwemo ahanini usanga biba byiganjemo ibiganiro by’imibonano mpuzabitsina.


Ikinyamakuru Cosmopolitan cyaganiriye n’umuhanga muby’imiterere n’imitekerereze ya muntu witwa Ian Wallace kimusaba gusobanura inzozi benshi bagira iyo barose bari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Ikinyamakuru Cosmopolitan cyaganiriye n’umuhanga muby’imiterere n’imitekerereze ya muntu witwa Ian Wallace kimusaba gusobanura inzozi benshi bagira iyo barose bari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Iyo urose waciye inyuma uwo musanzwe mukundana

Ibi biba bisobanura ko nta cyizere wifitiye, ibi ariko ntibivuze ko uba wiburiye icyizere mu rukundo rwawe. Kurota gutya, bisobanura ko urota afite ikibazo kimugoye aho atari kubasha kwigirira icyizere, nguko uko Wallace yabivuze.

Kurota waciye inyuma uwo usanzwe ukunda, ni ikimenyetso cy’uko ushaka ko abagukikije bemeza ko ushoboye.

Urose wakoze imibonano mpuzabitsina n’uwo mufite ibitsina bimwe

Ibi bisobanuye ko wishimiye uko umubiri wawe umeze muri icyo gihe. ibi kandi bishobora gusobanura kwiyemeza guhambaye nk’umubyeyi, uwashinze urugo cyangwa se umukozi.

Kurota ukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umuntu udafite isura

Abatari bacye nabo bakunda kugira izi nzozi, burya isura ivuga irangamuntu. ibi bisobanura ko mu buzima bwawe ubangamiwe n’ikintu ariko mu by’ukuri utazi icyo aricyo.

Izo nzozi ubwonko buba bugusaba gutekereza birenzeho, bityo ukabasha kumenya icyo kibazo n’ikigitera ukaba wagikemura vuba.

Urose ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umwe mu nshuti zawe zisanzwe

Ibi bibaho kuri benshi, aho hari abacyeka ko biterwa no kwifuza gukorana nawe imibonano mpuzabitsina. Uyu muhanga we avuga ko kurota gutyo ushobora kubiterwa n’uburyo wishimira cyangwa ukunda uwo warose cyangwa hari icyo umukundaho.

Urose ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umwe mubo uzi ariko usanzwe wanga

ibi bisobanura ishyari ushobora kuba umufitiye, akenshi aha uba umufitiye ishyari ry’uko ari gutsinda cyangwa se ari gutera imbere kukurusha.

Iyo urose waciye inyuma uwo musanzwe mukundana

Ibi biba bisobanura ko nta cyizere wifitiye, ibi ariko ntibivuze ko uba wiburiye icyizere mu rukundo rwawe. Kurota gutya, bisobanura ko urota afite ikibazo kimugoye aho atari kubasha kwigirira icyizere, nguko uko Wallace yabivuze.

Kurota waciye inyuma uwo usanzwe ukunda, ni ikimenyetso cy’uko ushaka ko abagukikije bemeza ko ushoboye.

Urose wakoze imibonano mpuzabitsina n’uwo mufite ibitsina bimwe

Ibi bisobanuye ko wishimiye uko umubiri wawe umeze muri icyo gihe. ibi kandi bishobora gusobanura kwiyemeza guhambaye nk’umubyeyi, uwashinze urugo cyangwa se umukozi.

Kurota ukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umuntu udafite isura

Abatari bacye nabo bakunda kugira izi nzozi, burya isura ivuga irangamuntu. ibi bisobanura ko mu buzima bwawe ubangamiwe n’ikintu ariko mu by’ukuri utazi icyo aricyo.

Izo nzozi ubwonko buba bugusaba gutekereza birenzeho, bityo ukabasha kumenya icyo kibazo n’ikigitera ukaba wagikemura vuba.

Urose ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umwe mu nshuti zawe zisanzwe

Ibi bibaho kuri benshi, aho hari abacyeka ko biterwa no kwifuza gukorana nawe imibonano mpuzabitsina. Uyu muhanga we avuga ko kurota gutyo ushobora kubiterwa n’uburyo wishimira cyangwa ukunda uwo warose cyangwa hari icyo umukundaho.

Urose ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umwe mubo uzi ariko usanzwe wanga

ibi bisobanura ishyari ushobora kuba umufitiye, akenshi aha uba umufitiye ishyari ry’uko ari gutsinda cyangwa se ari gutera imbere kukurusha.

Rimwe na rimwe hari igihe ushobora kurota ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umukunzi wawe mwatandukanye kandi nyamara mutarigeze mukorana icyo gikorwa mu gihe mwari mukiri kumwe (mugikundana) ariko nyuma ukisanga warose mukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina, aha bisobanura ko mushobora kuba mugiye gusubirana mukongera gukundana.

Hari n’abandi barota bari gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n’icyamamare runaka. Aha biba bisobanuye ko uba waramuhariye igice kinini cy’ibitekerezo byawe kandi akenshi uba umutekerezaho ibijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina bityo waryama akakugaruka mu ndoto ukisanga uri gukorana icyo gikorwa na we mu nzozi wabyuka ukamubura.

Ushobora nanone kurota ukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umukoresha wawe. Ibi biba byerekana ko utiyizeye mu mwanya urimo w’akazi ahubwo ukaba uhora utekereza ko nuramuka ukoranye imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umukoresha wawe ari bwo uzumva utuje kuko wumva ko atakwirukana kandi mukorana imibonano.

Iki gitabo kandi kivuga ko hari ubwo ushobora kurota uryamanye n’umukoresha wawe kuko ushaka kuzamurwa mu ntera kandi ukabona nta kindi bizaturukaho uretse kuryamana na we.

Kurota ukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’uwo mukundana, byo bisobanuye ko wakuruwe na we akagutwara intekerezo (attraction) kubera ko wamukunze bidasanzwe ariko kwigarura bikaba byarakunaniye ukagera n’aho utangira kujya urota muri gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina

Inzozi ni kimwe mu bintu biranga umuntu mu buzima bwe bwa buri munsi, gusa ibyo turota biba bitandukanye bitewe ahanini n’ibyatubayeho mu munsi uba warangiye cyangwa nibyabaye mu minsi myinsi yashize. Ni byiza rero ko dusobanukirwa n’ibyo tuba twarose kuko akenshi biba bifite ubusobanuro.

Author : Martin Munezero

Munezero Martin ni Umwanditsi w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2014.

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