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Dore ibanga utari uzi rituma abagabo bikundira abagore bafite ikibuno kinini

Urukundo   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 14 November 2017 Yasuwe: 14238

- Igituma abagabo bashidukira abagore n’abakobwa bafite ibibuno binini
- Ikibuno kinini, imwe mu mpamvu nyamukuru zishobora gutuma umukobwa/umugore akundwa cyane

Ni byo koko hari byinshi bigenda bivugwa ku bijyanye n’imiterere y’igitsinagore cyane cyane hitawe ku itandukaniro riri hagati y’imiterere y’umubiri w’umukobwa n’umusore. Nk’uko rero na none abagore bose usanga hari imiterere badahuje ugendeye ku bigaragara inyuma[forme], usanga hari umwihariko w’abagore bafite ibibuno binini bagira mu rwego rwo kwigarurira imitima y’abagabo kurenza abifitiye ibibuno bito.

Umuntu ashobora kwibaza impamvu y’iyi myitwarire iranga abagabo n’abasore iyo babonye ikibuno kinini, ariko iwaculove.com kuri iyi nshuro turagaragaza zimwe mu mpamvu nyamukuru zitera abagabo n’abasore gukunda byimazeyo abagore n’abakobwa bafite amabuno manini.

1. Ni kamere y’abagabo

Inyigo yakozwe na Gallup, umwarimu muri kaminuza ya Albany, yagaragaje ko muri kamere karemano y’abagabo harimo imyumvire yuko umugore cyangwa umukobwa ufite ikibuno kinini, aba ariwe wavamo umugore ubyara abana neza.

2. Biryoshya imibonano mpuzabitsina

Ku bagabo n’abasore benshi, iyo babonye umukobwa cyangwa umugore ufite amabuno manini kandi aremetse neza, nta kindi bahita batekereza uretse imibonano mpuzabitsina. Abagabo bumva ko umugore uteye atyo ashimisha cyane mu buriri.

3. Bumva ko amabuno manini ariyo afatika

Benshi mu bagabo babajijwe impamvu bakunda amabuno manini, ngo bavuze ko ikibuno kinini kiryoheye kugikorakora. Ibi ni kamere ya benshi mu bagabo kuko akenshi bashimishwa n’ibintu bibiri, aribyo Kureba no Gukoraho. Abagabo rero bashimishwa cyane no gukorakora ku kibuno kinini.

4. Amabuno manini aranepa

Mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina, ngo abagabo banezezwa n’umugore ubyibushye cyane cyane ku kibuno kuko ngo bituma umugabo yumva ari kugwa ahashashe kandi hanepa neza cyane kandi hashyushye.

5. Abafite ikibuno kinini bakunze kuba abanyabwenge

Inyigo yakorewe muri kaminuza ya Oxford ngo yagaragaje ko abagore n’abakobwa bafite amabuno manini akenshi baba bafite n’ubwenge bwinshi kurusha abafite amabuno mato. Ibi ngo biterwa n’ibinure byinshi biba ku kibuno, bituma imisemburo yitwa Omega3, yiyongera cyane kandi ari nayo ituma ubwonko bukora neza cyane mu bijyanye n’ubwenge.

6. Bigaragaza umugora ufite ubuzima bwiza

Umugore cyangwa umukobwa ufite amabuno manini ngo bigaragaza ko nta kibazo cy’ubuzima afite, ndetse ngo abagore n’abakobwa bateye gutyo baba bafite ububasha bwo guhangana n’indwara nyinshi nkuko bitangazwa n’abahanga mu by’ubuvuzi.

7. Ikibuno kinini kiratigita

Benshi mu bagabo bakunda kujya mu tubyiniro no mu birori bitandukanye, usanga mu gihe bari kubyina bakunda kubyinana n’abagore cyanwa abakobwa bafite ikibuno kinini, ibi babikundira ko umugore cyangwa umukobwa umeze atyo iyo abyinishije ikibuno gitigita cyane maze bigatera akanyamuneza abagabo.

8. Ikibuno kinini ni ikimenyetso kiranga abagore

Akenshi iyo abanyabugeni bashushanya, iyo bagiye gushushanya umuntu w’igitsina gore, bibanda ku bice bibiri cyane ari byo Amabere, n’ikibuno kinini. Kugira ikibuno kinini rero ngo ni kimwe mu bigomba kuranga umugore n’umukobwa. Abagabo benshi bikundira abagore bafite ikibuno kinini kuko ari bo baberwa no kuba abagore, abenshi ngo ateye neza nk’igisabo.

Rimwe na rimwe umugabo ashobora kutita ku isura y’umugore cyangwa umukobwa umutambutseho, ariko agacyebuka ashaka kwitegereza amabuno ye. Ibi bigaragaza neza ko ntagushidikanya hari ibyiyumviro byihariye umugabo cyangwa umusore bagira iyo barebye cyangwa bakoze ku mabuno y’umugore cyangwa umukobwa.

Author : Martin Munezero

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    These are mere presumptions.Imana yahaye abagore AMABUNO manini kugirango abafashe mu kubyara.Ni kimwe nuko yaduhaye ibituza binini kugirango tubashe gukora imirimo y’ingufu.Ubwiza bw’umugore cyangwa umukobwa,imana yabugeneye gusa umugabo bazabana officially.Kwishimisha muli sex,ni byiza cyane.Nicyo gituma imana yaduhaye sex.Ariko byemerewe gusa abantu bashakanye legally.Ikibabaje nuko abagore n’abakobwa bakoresha UBWIZA bwabo mu gusambana.Mujye mumenya ko abasambanyi bose,kimwe n’abajura,abicanyi,etc...ntabwo bazaba muli Paradizo (1 Abakorinto 6:9,10).Kwishimisha akanya gato hanyuma ukazabura ubuzima bw’iteka muli Paradizo,ni ugutekereza nabi.Imana yashyizeho umunsi w’imperuka,kugirango izice abantu bose bakora ibyo itubuza.Byisomere muli Ibyakozwe 17:31 na Yeremiya 25:33.Abantu basuzugura imana,Bible ivuga ko bameze nk’inyamaswa zitagira ubwenge,ziba zitegereje kubagwa (2 Petero 2:12).

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