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Mugire inama: “Ahitemo uwo bavuga ko ari mubi, cyangwa ahitemo uwo bavuga ko agira amahane”

Urukundo   Yanditwe na: Nsanzimana Ernest 19 August 2017 Yasuwe: 2237

Umusomyi w’ Umuryango yatwandikiye yifuza inama yawe. Ni umusore yakundanye n’ umukobwa abahungu babana bamubwira ko uwo mukobwa ari mubi. Abona undi bagenzi be bamubwira ko ari mwiza nyuma aza kumenya amakuru ko agira amahane. Ni mumufashe guhitamo!

Yatwandikiye agira ati:

Mwaramutse basomyi b’ Umuryango, nkeneye inama zanyu ngo mbone amahitamo!

Ndi umusore narangije kaminuza muri 2016, mfite akazi kampemba biringaniye. Nkinga muri kaminuza muri 2015, nakundanye n’ umukobwa nanjye mbibona ko atari mwiza cyane ku isura nkamukundira ko anyitaho akamba hafi nkamubwira buri kimwe cyose mbese ubona ko ntacyo duhishanya.

Imyaka itatu irashira mukunda 50% kubera ukuntu anyitwaraho n’ ukuntu anyubaha, indi 50% numva mfite ipfunwe ryo kuba nkundana nawe bitewe n’ ukuntu bagenzi banjye bacaga intege bambwira ko ari mubi ku isura. Ibi bituma iyo ngendana nawe mba numva ntaguwe neza. N’ iyo tuvugana kuri telefone ngerageza guhisha bagenzi banjye ko ariwe turimo kuvugana kuko mba numva nibabona duhamagarana baranseka.

Mu myaka itatu ishize dukundana nirinze kumwerurira ngo mubwire ko nzamugira umugore kuko numva kubifataho umwanzuro byarananiye.

Mu mezi atatu ashize nagiye ahantu mpurirayo n’ umukobwa mwiza, ampata care zishoboka zose ntangira kumva anyeganyeza amarangamutima yanjye. Yampaye numero ya telefone ndayibika nanga kumuhamagara cyangwa kumwandikira kuko numvaga naba ndimo guta umwanya. Byanze bikunze natekerezaga ko umukobwa mwiza nk’ uwo nta kuntu yaba adafite umukunzi.

Igihe cyarageze aza kunyandira message nto ati “Hy! Ko wacecetse?”Byahereye aho ntangira kugenda mutinyuka, mu bwira ko nakunze ukuntu azi kwita ku bantu, mubwira ko azi kuganira, arituriza ntiyagira icyo abivugaho. Nyuma naje kumubwira ko mukunda aranyihorera ntiyampa igisubizo ariko ndabibona ko bimushimishije.

Kuva umunsi namubwiye ko mukunda yatangiye kunyitwaho nk’ umukunzi we, buri gitondo akampa aka message, akanyuzamo akampamagara ageze anyerurira ko nawe ankunda nubwo nabimubwiye agaceceka. Ambaza niba nta mpinduka nabonye nyuma yaho mubwiye ko mukubda mubwira ko nazibonye.

Uyu mukobwa namweretse bagenzi banjye bambwira ko ari mwiza, kandi nanjye numva ntewe ishema no gutemberana nawe.

Abazi uyu mukobwa bambwiye ko agira amahane, ndetse aho atuye nta muntu ujya amuvugiramo. Nubwo bimeze gutyo ariko mu minsi yose tumaranye ntabyo ndabona uretse rimwe twarimo tuvugana kuri telefone numva avuze mu ijwi ririmo igitsure abwira abagore bari bari kumwe na mama we ngo baceceke barimo kumusakuriza.

Magingo aya numva wa mukobwa wa mbere agenda amvamo kuburyo ibyumweru bitatu bishira nta muhamaye. Nabanje kumubwira ko nsigaye ngira akazi kenshi kuburyo nta mwanya mbona wo kuvugira kuri telefone aratuza aranyihorera gusa akomeza kunyereka ko ankunda.

Ntekereza kumubwira ko nabonye undi nkabura aho nabihera. Ntabwo nigeze mubwira ko bagenzi banjye batamushimye kuko iyo yabaga yansuye baramuganirizaga bisanzwe yataha bakanyata bati “Uriya mukobwa wamuhingukana iwanyu ntasoni ufite?”.

Ndeke umukobwa ukunda kuko antera ipfunwe na bagenzi banjye bakaba bambwira ko ari mubi nsange utantera ipfunwe ariko abantu batinya kubera ko bavuga ko agira amahane? Nkore iki?

Author : Nsanzimana Ernest

Nsanzimana Ernest ni Umwanditsi mukuru w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2016, afite Impamyabumenyi y’Icyiciro cya Kabiri cya Kaminuza (A0) mu Itangazamakuru n’Itumanaho yakuye muri Kaminuza y’u Rwanda Ishuri ry’ itangazamakuru n’ itumanaho

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