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Sobanukirwa uryoherwa cyane hagati y’umugore n’umugabo iyo bari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina

Urukundo   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 7 November 2018 Yasuwe: 8565

Impaka zikunze kuba ndende mu bantu aho bamwe usanga bavuga ngo umugore niwe uryoherwa mu gikorwa cy’akabariro mu gihe abandi batabikozwa bavuga ko ari umugabo.

Nyamara ubushakashatsi bwakozwe bwaje bukuraho urujijo kuri izi mpaka aho bwagaragaje ko abagore aribo baryoherwa cyane n’iki gikorwa kurusha abagabo.

Impamvu yo gutekereza ko umugabo ariwe uryoherwa ni uko akenshi umugabo cyangwa umuhungu ariwe ufata iyambere mu kwegera umukobwa cyangwa umugore, akamuganiriza, akamugezaho icyifuzo cye ariko iyo icyo gikorwa kibaye usanga umugore ariwe uryoherwa kurusha umugabo.

Nk’uko byemezwa n’abahanga muri psychologie, bikanagarukwaho n’urubuga rwa yahoo rushimangira ko aba bombi bifuza imibonano mpuzabitsina ariko umugabo niwe ubikenera cyane noneho umugore akaryoherwa kumurusha.

Ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko iyo akoze imibonano mpuzabitsina neza usanga we aba arwana no kurangiza mu gihe umugore we aba yumva akorana icyo gikorwa urukundo akagaragaza amarangamutima,aho usanga bijya bishimangirwa n’urusaku cyangwa guhumeka yitsa imitima.

Hari abakunda kwibeshya ko uburebure bw’igitsina bufite aho buhuriye n’uburyohe bw’umugore mu buriri ariko Ibi nabyo nta shingiro bifite, nk’uko abahanga babyemeza.

Nta mahuriro kandi n’indeshyo y’ibirenge bye, cyangwa iy’ikindi gice cy’umubiri.

Abagore ntibakora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umuntu badafitanye urukundo, iyo binabaye ni cyo gihe usanga hatabaye kwishima, ariko iyo hajemo urukundo usanga ariho ruzingiye banyurwa n’iki gikorwa cyane.

Hari abantu bashobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina amasaha menshi , ikigereranyo kivuga ko imibonano mpuzabitsina imara hagati y’iminota 13-30 ubariyemo n’iminota nibura 10 yo gutegurana. Gusa usanga abenshi batavuga rumwe kuri iyi ngingo aho usanga hari abavuga ko iyi minota ari mike mu gihe abandi bemeza ko ihagije.

Author : Martin Munezero

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