Abagore benshi hari amakosa bakunze gukora abatazi ko ashobora kubasenyera ariko hari inama zishobora kugufasha kumenya uko ukwiye kwitwara urugo rwawe rukarushaho gukomera.

Sponsored Ad

Bimwe mu bintu bishobora kugufasha kubaka urugo kandi rugkomera ukagira umuryango ushize hamwe.

1. Ba umunyabwenge mu gufuha

Gufuhirana ni kimwe mu bintu bisenya ingo. Gufuha si ikibazo ahubwo ikibazo ni ugufuhira umugabo wawe utabanje gushaka ibimenyetso bigaragaza impamvu zituma umufuhira. Ntuzibeshye ngo uhungabanye urukundo rw’ umugabo wawe wiha ibyo kumufuhira igihe cyose udafite gihamya.

2.Kunda umugabo wawe

Ntabwo umuntu ashaka umuntu adakunze, gusa birashoboka ko nyuma yo gushyingiranwa hari ibishobora guhinduka bitewe n’ imyitwarire y’ umugabo wawe, gusa urukundo rwihanganira byose, kandi urushako rufite ikirungo kitwa urukundo ntirupfa.

3. Irinde gutanga ibisobanuro bidashinga

Umugabo wawe si umutagatifu ku buryo yahora afata imyanzuro myiza. Aho kugira ngo usenye umwanzuro yafashe garagaza impamvu zifatika zituma ubona ko umwanzuro yafashe atari wo mwiza aho kunenga ibyo yakoze. Umugore n’ umugabo bashakana kugira ngo babe abafatanyabikorwa ntabwo bashakanye kugira ngo bahangane.

4. Menya kandi wubahirize inshingano zawe

Haranira kumenya ibibazo abagize umuryango bafite no gutanga umusanzu mu kubikemura. Umugabo agushaka adateganya ko ushobora kuzigira ntibindeba ahubwo aba atekereza ko uzuzuza inshingano zawe, nawe akuzuza ize urugo rwanyu rugatera imbere.