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Menya uburyo bwiza bwo gusigasira ubumwe bw’umuryango

Ubuzima   Yanditswe na: ISHIMWE JANE 4 April 2022

Remwe na rimwe umuntu ashobora kubaho yumva ari we wenyine akitekerezaho ubwe ntiyibuke ko afite umuryango ariko ntago ariko byagakwiye kugenda, mu rwego rwo gusigasira ubumwe bw’umuryango no kurushaho kubaka urukundo hari ibintu bimwe na nabimwe biba bikwiye guhinduka byaba binini cyangwa bito kugirango ubashe kubaka umuryango usenyera umugozi umwe.


Hari uburyo butandukanye ushobora kwifashisha kugirango urusheho kubaka ubumwe bw’umuryango.

1. Gushyikirana nk’umuryango

Koresha ubuhanga bwogutumanaho neza, kugirango ubashe kubaka ubumwe bw’umuryango Buri wese mu bagize umuryango agomba kumva ko afite agaciro kandi ko yitaweho. Ibi birimo nawe. Kugirango abagize umuryango wawe bumve ibyo ukeneye cyangwa nawe umenye ibyo bakeneye nuko buri wese aba agomba kubigaragaza,haranira kugira ikinyabupfura, kandi ube inyangamugayo mu gihe uganira n’umuryango wawe.

2. Gerageza kumva ibyo abagize umuryango wawe bakubwira

Umva witonze. Nkuko ushaka ko abagize umuryango wawe bakumva, ni ngombwa ko wumva ibibazo byabo. Abagize umuryango wawe bazumva bakunzwe kandi bunze ubumwe nk’umuryango niba ibitekerezo byabo byunvikana kandi byubahwa. Irinde kuvugira hejuru yumuryango wawe, hanyuma, ubatege amatwi wumve ibyo bavuga.

3. Iga gushimira uwakoze neza

Abantu benshi usanga umuco wo gushimira barawutaye ariko ntibikwiye, ni byiza ko uwakoze neza ashimirwa n’uwakoze nabi agakosorwa kandi neza, niba ushaka gukomeza ubumwe bw’umuryango ni byiza ko wiga gushimira umuntu wese mu muryango kandi ukamwereka ko utewe ishema no kuba umufite nk’umuryango wawe.

4. Emera kutavuga rumwe

Abagize umuryango wawe bose ntibazumvikana kuri buri kibazo. Nkumuryango, ugomba guhinduka no kwemera ibitekerezo bya buri muntu. Irinde gutongana cyangwa kubogamira uruhande rumwe kubintu bidafite ishingiro. Ahubwo, kora ibishoboka kugirango ugabanye inshingano n’uburenganzira muburyo bwiza.

5. Tanga kandi wemere imbabazi

Mugihe havutse impaka, ugomba gukora kugirango ukemure ikibazo. Iyo impaka zirangiye, gusaba imbabazi bishobora kuba kuri buri wese. Niba wararenze umurongo uwo ariwo wose, ugomba gusaba imbabazi abagize umuryango kugirango ibintu bigende neza. Ikindi gice cyingenzi cyo gusaba imbabazi nukwemera. Igihe cyose umwe mu bagize umuryango agusabye imbabazi, wemere imbabazi kandi ukomeze kugirango uhuze umuryango.

6. Kugabana inshingano

Kora gahunda z’umuryango, mu rwego rwo kugabanya agasigane mu bagize umuryango, Inzira zemerera buriwese mumuryango kumenya igihe nibintu bizabera. ibikorwa bya buri munsi ni bindi, kugirango ugabanye agasigane no gutuma buri munyamuryango wese haricyo ashoboye cyangwa afite inshingano ushobora kubagabanya inshingano bitewe nicyo buri wese ashoboye gukora.

7. Tegura kenshi ibintu bibahuza nk’umuryango

Shira umuryango imbere, Kugira ngo wumve ubumwe bwumuryango, abagize umuryango wawe bose bagomba kwiga gushyira imbere umuryango. Ibi birashobora gusobanura kwigomwa mubindi bice, kandi kwigomwa bishobora gutuma umuryango ukomera no kurushaho kungurana ibitekerezo, mukamenyana byimbitse mu gihe mufashe umwanya wo kuba hamwe cyane.

Author : ISHIMWE JANE

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