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Reba ibyafasha umukobwa kongera ubwiza asanganywe

Ad Restricted   Yanditswe na: Martin Munezero 3 December 2020

Abakobwa n’abagore ubwiza ni kimwe mu bintu baha agaciro cyane. Ushaka kuba umwanzi n’umugore/umukobwa,wamubwira ko ari mubi. Ariheba,bikamutera ikibazo ndetse agatangira kumva abangamiwe.

Buri mukobwa/umugore aharanira kugira ubwiza uko bukeye n’uko bwije. Hari amabanga 6 yafasha umukobwa/umugore kwongera ubwiza asanganywe .

1.Menya ubusobanuro bw’ubwiza

Kugira ngo umukobwa cyangwa umugore abashe kongera ubwiza asanganywe ,agomba kubanza kumenya ubusobanuro bw’ijambo ubwiza. Kuba mwiza kuri wowe bisobanura iki?Banza ushake icyo wowe wita ubwiza. Andika nibura ibintu bigaragaza umuntu mwiza. Rebera kubandi kubwawe ubona ko ari beza. Uzasanga ibyo ubona kubo wita beza ,abandi babibona ukundi gutandukanye n’uko wowe ubibona. Hari igihe ushobora kwicara ugataka umuntu ko ari mwiza,njye naza nkabona ibyo uvuga ntagaciro mbihaye,uwo wita mwiza njye simubonemo ubwo bwiza.

2. Ntukigereranye n’abandi

Kwigereranya na kanaka ntibikongerera ubwiza. Shaka uko ubumbatira ubwiza bwawe utiriwe urebera kubandi. Ntamuntu uremye nk’undi. Wishaka kumera nk’anbandi. Kuba mwiza cyangwa kongera ubwiza usanganywe ntibisobanura guhinduka undi wundi.

3.Ugomba kwita ku bwiza bwawe

Fata icyirori wirebe ,ushake ikintu cyiza ku mubiri wawe. Hari ubwo kiba kihishe,ugomba kubanza kuvumbura ikintu cyiza wifiteho. Ntamuntu kuri iyi si ubura ikintu kiza ku mubiri we. Nta n’umwiza wabuze inenge na nyirahuku igira amabinga. Ushobora kuba ufite amaso meza, amaguru meza,intugu nziza,umusatsi mwiza,..Niba umaze kumenya ibanga ry’ubwiza bwawe,tangira kurisigasira. Imbaraga zawe zigomba kwibanda kuri iryo banga wibonyeho. Menya uko urikoresha.

4.Shyira imbaraga ku bwiza bwo mu mutima

Hari abakobwa/abagore baba bafite ubwiza bugaragara inyuma ariko wakumva amagambo amusohokamo ukumirwa. Mwene ubwo bwiza buba bupfuye ubusa. Shyira imbaraga ku bwiza bwo ku mutima. Menya kubana neza no kuvugana n’abantu mu mvugo iboneye. Kubaha bose utarebye imyaka,n’icyubahiro umuntu afite ni iturufu ishobora gutuma umuntu akwikundira ukaruta wawundi usa n’ihoho ariko ufite imico mibi n’imyitwarire idashamaje.

5.Iyiteho

Ubwiza bw’umukobwa n’umugore bugomba guhora bwitabwaho. Shaka umwanya wiyiteho:Umusatsi nicyo kintu cya mbere kigaragaza ubwiza bw’umukobwa/umugore, witeho uko bishoboka. Shaka ibirungo(maquillage) ubona biberanye n’isura yawe ubundi nakubwira iki. Gukabya kubirundaho siko kuba mwiza cyane. Shyiraho maquillage iri mu rugero.

6. Kwimenya

Burya abakobwa bose ni beza ariko ikibazo kibakomerera ni ukwimenya. Nyuma yo kumenya ibyiza wifiteho menya n’ibice by’umubiri byaba atari byiza. Irinde kwirukira ibigezweho utabanje kureba ko bijyanye n’imiterere yawe. Niba hari imyenda ubona undi mukobwa/umugore yambaye ikamubera biba bitewe n’uko ateye wowe imenye urebe neza niba bijyanye nawe. Ushobora kuba ufire amaguru mabi wabona umukobwa naka yambaye ijipo ngufi ikamubera kuko we aye ari meza uti nanjye natanzwe kandi wenda wifitiye ikibuno kinini wakwambara nk’ipantaro ikakubera. Niba naka afite munda heza akambara umupira uherekana wowe ufite ibicece uti nacitswe kandi burya nawe hari icyiza kikuriho ushobora kugaragaza ukaba mwiza. Ni ingenzi rero ko wimenya mbere yo kwirunga, kwiyambika, kwisukisha n’ibindi nk’ibyo.

Ibanga risumba ayandi ni ukugira amagara mazima. Ubwiza ufite cyangwa uharanira ntacyo bwaba bumaze igihe utarinda amagara yawe. Niwiyandarika ukandura SIDA,ejo ukigendera(ugapfa) nkeka ko ubwiza bwawe buzaba bupfuye ubusa. Kwirirwa wiyahuza ibiyobyabwenge wangiza umubiri wawe ,ntacyo ubwo bwiza buzaba bukimaze.

Author : Martin Munezero

Munezero Martin ni Umwanditsi w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2014.

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