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Menya uburyo bwiza wasabamo imbabazi umukunzi wawe

Amakuru   Yanditswe na: ISHIMWE JANE 15 July 2022

Mu rukundo gushwana cyangwa se kutumvikana ku kintu runaka n’ibintu bisanzw ariko hari uburyo ushobora gusaaba imbabazi mu genzi wawe mu gihe wamubangamiye akakubabarira bimuvuye ku mutima kandi mwese mugasigara munyuzwe.


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Uburyo bwiza ushobora gusabamo imbabazi umukunzi wawe

1.Wikwiregura

Iyo uri gusaba imbabazi umukunzi wawe ukabivangamo no kwiregura bikurura izindi mpaka, ingingo yo gusaba imbabazi igatakara. Mu gihe uhisemo gusaba imbabazi saba imbabazi niba uhisemo kwiregura nabyo ntukwiye kubivanga no gusaba imbabazi kuko umuntu usaba imbabazi kuko yemeye ikosa.

2.Kumuha icyizere ko bitazongera

Mu gihe usaba imbabazi umukunzi wawe, ukeneye ko umubano wanyu ukomeza uri nta makemwa, ni byiza kwemera ko wakosheje kandi ukanamubwira ko ugiye gukosora iryo kosa wirinda ko ryazasubira. Kumwizeza ijana ku ijana naryo ni amakosa kuko ushobora kuzongera ukarigwamo bigutunguye, ikiza ni ukumubwira ko ugiye kugerageza kwitwararika, kugira umunsi wongeye gucikwa azakumve.

3.Ba inyangamugayo kandi uvuge bikuvuye ku mutima

Niba koko wisuzumye ugasanga wahemukiye umukunzi wawe, reka amarangamutima yawe avuge, ku buryo nakureba akubonamo guca bugufi.

4.Kwemera ikosa

Niba umukunzi wawe wamubwiye nabi cyangwa wakoze irindi kosa, wakwisuzuma uganga atariko byari bikwiye kugenda. Igihe usanze ugomba kumusaba imbabazi ni ngombwa ko mu magambo ukoresha isaba imbabazi humvikanamo ko uzi ikosa wakoze. Urugero ukamubwira uti ‘rwose narengere ntabwo nagombaga kuba nakoze iki n’iki muri buriya buryo’, cyangwa uti ‘ntabwo nagombaga kuba nakubwiye kuriya’.

5.Guca bugufi

Nubwo ushobora kumva ko ikosa wakoze riremereye ku buryo wabuze aho uhera umusaba imbabazi, ni ngombwa ko utifata ahubwo ukwiye kumwereka uwo wiyumva ku buryo nakureba amenya icyo ushaka kumubwira niyo utavuga urareka ururimi rw’amarenga y’umubiri rukamubwira.

Author : ISHIMWE JANE

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