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Dore impamvu udakwiye kugenderaho niba wifuza kujya mu rukundo rw’ukuri

Imyidagaduro   Yanditswe na: ISHIMWE JANE 3 August 2022

Niba wifuza kujya mu rukundo rw’ukuro dore impamvu udakwiye kugenderaho ufata umwanzuro wo kujya mu rukundo


1. Imyaka

Kwinjira mu mubano runaka kuko ubona ko imyaka yawe iri kugusiga nayo si impamvu nziza yatuma utangira umubano. Imyaka iri kugusiga siyo izatuma ukundana n’uwo muntu ngo ruhame, ahubwo ukwiriye kwinjira mu mubano ari uko wumva ko koko bikurimo kandi igihe kigeze.

2.Ufite irungu/ urigunze

Gutangira gukundana n’umuntu kuko ufite irungu cyangwa se wumva ko wigunze si impamvu nziza yakwinjiza mu mubano kuko n’ubundi uzakomeza kugira irungu cyangwa kumva uri wenyine nubwo umukunzi wawe yaba akuri iruhande. Uzisanga ugifite irungu kuko nubundi winjiye mu mubano mu gihe kitari cyo cyangwa se biguturutsemo ubwawe.

3. Inshuti zawe nazo zifite abakunzi

Gutangira gukundana ngo kuko n’inshuti zawe zifite abakunzi ni ikosa kuko urukundo cyangwa umubano ugomba kubyinjiramo biguturutsemo ubwawe atari uko ugize uwo ubyigana cyangwa ubireberaho.

4. Kwibagirwa uwahoze ari umukunzi wawe

Hari abantu benshi bahita bihutira gushaka undi mukunzi vuba vuba kugira ngo babashe kwibagirwa igikomere batewe n’umukunzi bahoze bakundana. Ni ikosa kuko urukundo nkurwo ruhutiweho rutarangira neza. Inama nziza ugirwa ni ukubanza gukira neza igikomere aho guhutiraho ngo ukunde wibagirwe uwo mwahoze mukundana.

5. Umuryango n’inshuti zawe ziramukunda

Gukundana n’umusore cyangwa umukobwa kuko umuryango wawe umukunda cyangwa ko inshuti zawe zimwishimira naryo ni ikosa usabwa kutazakora. Impamvu ni uko abo bose ataribo bazakundana na we ahubwo wowe ubwawe ni wowe amarangamutima agomba guturukaho. Nimuramuka mugiranye ikibazo, uzisanga wicuza kuko nubundi uziha impamvu y’uko utari warigeze umukunda ahubwo ko mwahujwe n’uko abantu b’inshuti zawe aribo bamukundaga. Ese ntuzicuza icyo gihe wataye ?

6.Gukururwa n’imiterere y’inyuma gusa

Bamwe mu bantu bakunda gukururwa n’imiterere y’inyuma y’umukobwa cyangwa se umusore, bakumva ariyo ihagije ngo batangire urukundo cyangwa umubano n’uwo muntu runaka.

Imiterere y’inyuma ni kimwe mu byo wagenderaho ukunda umuntu ariko siyo mpamvu nyamukuru yagukururira guhita wimariramo umuntu kuko akenshi usanga ari ngombwa ko ureba n’ingeso cyangwa imiterere ye mu buzima busanzwe kugira ngo ubashe kubona ko mwazashobokana.

Author : ISHIMWE JANE

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