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Ntuzemere gushyingiranwa n’ umukunzi wawe nadasubiza ibi bizabo 10

Ubuzima   Yanditswe na: Rebecca UFITAMAHORO 20 July 2021

Mbere yo gushyingiranwa n’ umukunzi wawe uzamubaze ibi bibazo uzamenya ubumuntu bwe bigufashe kumumenya byimbitse.


Ibibazo 10 wabaza umukunzi wabaza umukunzi wawe mbere y’ uko mushyingiranwa

1. Unkundira iki? Iki kibazo abakundana bakibazanya bagitangira gukundana ariko nibyiza ko wongera ukabibaza umukunzi wawe mbere y’ uko ufata icyemezo cyo gushyingiranwa nawe kuko bituma yifungura ukamenya icyo akwitezeho n’ umugambi agufiteho.

2. Ni izihe ntego ufite witeguye ute kuzijyanisha n’ urukundo rwacu

Iki kibazo kigufasha kumenya niba umukunzi wawe atazegeraho akicuza ko mwarabanye ukamenya niba urukundo rwanyu cyangwa gushyingiranwa kwanyu atabibona nk’ umuzigo uzamubuza kugera ku ndoto ze.

3.Ubanye ute n’ umuryango wawe kuba umuntu udashoboye kubanira neza abo mu muryango we byakwereka ko adashobora kuba umugabo/umugore mwiza.

4.Kuki wumva iminsi y’ ubuzima bwawe twayimarana Iki kibazo nacyo gituma umukunzi wawe ahishyura byimbitse uko akubona n’ agaciro abona ufite mu buzima bwe.

6. Uzareka urukundo rukomeze rukure umuntu wumva agaciro ko gukomeza urukundo anakora uko ashoboye ngo rukomeze rukure.
7. Washobora kwihanganira kubana n’ abantu babi umuntu udashobora kwihanganira kubana n’ abantu babi ntabwo ashobora urugo.

8. Hari ubumenyi ufite ku bubyeyi Iyo umuntu afite ubumenyi ku mibereho y’ ababyeyi byerekana ko mu buzima atewe ishema no kuba umubyeyi ndetse ko yiteguye kubyara no kurera.

9. Uzakomeza gukuza umubano wanjye nawe Umuntu ukomeza gushyimishwa n’ ibindi bitadukanye n’ inyungu z’ urugo ageraho agasenya, umukunzi wawe iyo agusubije ukumva icyo ashyize kitari inyungu z’ urugo rwanyu byaba byiza muretse gufata umwanzuro wo gushyingiranwa.

10. Niba ubuzima bwanjye bubaye bugufi uzakomeza kunyibuka? Iyo muganira akaguhishyurira ko azahora yibuka umubano wanyu ni ikimenyetso cy’ uko aha agaciro urukundo rwanyu ndetse yifuza mwazabana igihe kinini.

Author : Rebecca UFITAMAHORO

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